When we want to master something, we practice: Those who want to play the piano well take lessons, and those who want to dance like a ballerina train regularly. This principle applies to all areas of life - only in sex do we think that everything should just happen naturally. How wrong this assumption is is evidenced by the numbers: Only one in three women regularly reaches orgasm during sex. Yet it could be quite simple: Just as a pianist must train their fingers, the vagina also needs to be sensitized in order to feel something during sex. Dania Schiftan explains how this works in this book and helps us, in the process, to get to know our bodies better.