Does my life still belong to me? Never has the danger been greater than today to betray our own wishes and dreams. The modern person lives for work, for family, or for their Facebook account, but no longer for themselves. The media tells us what we should think; fashion designers dictate how we should dress; employers decide how we must spend our day. Often, burnout and depression are the consequences of this conformity. Successful author Martin Wehrle therefore urges us to stop doing everything just for others and to do everything for ourselves. According to the motto: Be unique, not nice!.